I was asked.
Quote” In terms of just doing…I have a question about contextual reality or one’s embodied conceptions. If one is living a best future now then one can continually make it even deeper, better by continuously pulling a better contextual reality or embodied conception continuously. Hence, how does timing and interval of the pull from the future now come into play? End quote”

You cant really make it better, its not what your doing that make it work, its the system in play that draws the experience allowing it to for your brain to be “new”.

If you look at the movie, 50 first dates with Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler, its a comedy but it also shows the character Drew plays have a curse or a gift.
For her, every day, is “new” for him not so much.

So, here we have a situation unheard of in NLP.
We can have a new experience that still allows us to have a memory of it but each time we have it, its new for us, which contradicts everything people learn to do in NLP, this is just better.

It shouldn’t be possible.

Normally people if they have an experience, it gets stale, old, grow boring.
Its due to how the brain categorize experience, if its done it gets stored into long term memory, allowing us to build a new learning about what we experience so we can prepare accordingly to a similar future experience. That is also what people use to get stuck or limited in life.

Aadam Sandler use the normal way people learn and experience, and it grows old fast as he remember each event, for Drew it doesn’t.
Now, a combination between those two is how this works in RBIm.
Its also how it should work using Mythoself btw.

Here, we have the experience, we like, and each time you access it, its new in a way you can understand, and still you remember having it before but this is access to the way we experience life new and fresh each time so it cant never grow stale due to how you have accessed and set the brains experience.

Its why I can talk to athletes, or to people having had traumas, and let them produce and perform so much better and feel fine without any so called problem oriented resolution as in NLP.

The athlete can undo his old patterns, just like that and now have a new and set action to do, that is free from the old one, making sure we can do what is done in the moment.
Shot by shot if you like the old classic.

A trauma is then an experience people have that is set in a context, that then generalize to build patterns or responses to the world from this established and learn experience. This means for people doing that, they always run the trauma and what they learned from that even in situations that has nothing to do with it.
This slowly generalize for them to build the reality it is as it is and nothing can be done with it, as they sure enough tried to move on.
They tried to talk themselves out of it, they tried to look and think positive, but nothing changes their behavior and they feel then guilty and often ashamed they fail and some even have fear about doing anything new due to the responses that happens for them.

So even if I use the example of an individual who had a trauma the structure is the same with other stuff people learn and do.
They cant get out from it.

Now, I used NLP effectively, much likely as effective as Bandler, Grinder and such people. None I know of that I met was even close to what I could do and did.

Now, I also noted that I had clients that simply had such a different ways that when I used NLP, those couldn’t be classified doing NLP with, now at the time I didn’t know why I just noted that some did things as I noted like to investigate why things works as they do or don’t.
I had clients that other NLP trained people had worked with and some was the best of the world had failed with where I succeeded.

Normally the brain stores responses, and those responses we use to decide what behavior we shall use here.
This is contextual variables, as those becomes present, the brain fires of the behavioral set reaction.
Now, those can both be imagined and real, the brain doesn’t know the difference.

So, as this happens, we then use this as a reference position or the point of origin we use to navigate trough the world, when interacting with family, friends, school, work and such.
Now, this might go any way, either the individual learn to accept the world and new impulses and move beyond the trauma and establish a new reference or they blend them with the new which in some cases causes anxiety, fear, guilt, shame and such.
Its due that we must use contextual reference, if not we go nuts.

Every time anyone loose their sanity, they loose context.

So, what we do then is to build a new future, a new future experience, and when its set, free from past memories, the behavior changes and since that is dependent on the responses and actions the brain takes, we then successfully have re-set and replaced the old position due to now, our behavior is different.
Now, its doable to do so using NLP but then you need to add something new, to replace the old or else it will go back to its original state.
Heck even Richard Bandler speaks about that time and time again on his workshops…replace what was taken out

He cant do, what I teach.

Since we don’t need to add anything as the process allow us to sync the brain developments doing the RBIm set blueprint, and then use that as a new reference, and then we are free to actually choose what to have as an experience, meeting the criteria of NLP of choice.

RBIm is the new NLP, just another name that works better and easier than NLP ever will.

If people had to little choice, here we can design the set reference, so it allows people to make any choice, without being concerned with what is going on with their state of consciousness first.

People in pain, seldom are not that easy to talk to, they cant believe anything else than their current pain. (taught current experience, linked with set contextual reference)
This is how life is for them.(set factual evidence belief and no, it isn’t what bandler teaches)
Then everything that is going on, always will be from that set contextual position in life for them.

Now, they will have hope, they will try to overcome this, and it can be done in numerous of ways, but all those are problemoriented, they all assume that the set position they work with is real.
Every client I worked with come in and tell me, this is real, and naturally it is, for them, not for me.

I point out where they could go, using NLP tools that was slow and often painful even if I could in some cases do miracles, that wasn’t enough as there was to much that was unexplainable.

Reality is how we perceive the world, right now.
How you know it, is how you react to what I write or not.
What are you going to do today?

Its all how you perceive what is real for you.

Are you killing dogs, cats, birds? Burning them and smiling?
No?
Some are, for them that is real and natural and fun.

For serial killers the power of having a human life in their hand is the greatest feeling ever.
Its like being GOD.
Obviously a penis compensation but hey.

Are you helping out in the neighbor hood, are you swearing about your neighbors behaviors?
Are you annoyed with the work, your boss, co-workers or friends or even the family?

NO?

some are.

Its what the reality is for them, its how they perceive the world.

Bandler and others don’t like what I write as I am telling you guys the truth in what is better and what they cant do. I am open to questions and answers them to my best ability from how I understand what I done and does.
Good luck doing that with Bandler and the likes.

Now, reading all the above most likely affected your state, your current consciousness, and for some, they cant re-set or get into the wanted experience after such readings due to them lacking the access to the vestibular system and the balance of the brains.(cant do it with their anchoring skills from NLP either)

A few years back I had to trow out a student due to him not listening to me, I called the cops to remove him, now this set for everyone in the room a real time traumatic experience, big time, and I spent 9 hours to clear it up for them as I taught the stuff I did.
I did that since it was my responsibility to do so but I also did that using the vestibular system to set the wanted experience so they wouldn’t be burden with the traumatic experience.
They could however as I told them get a real experience how crazy people could be when they appeared perceivable normal at first glance.
The student went and become a NLP Trainer with John Grinder.
Guess that is how much I give for their so called calibrations licensing trainers.
It sucks.

Now, when someone experience what some called a imprint, this becomes often a way the brain navigates as it acts as a reference.
Now, some girls often have low self-esteem, they often believe they are not worthy often worthless.
Now, that is a social construct, they grow up learning to be that, and for the life of me, as this is true all over the world, that is a social construct, not just a cultural one.

But I digress, when one enters the same experience, having a new and fresh experience, and still remembers having the old one and this doesn’t generalize as any other experiences, you then are safe to say your having a embodied experience.

That is pure perfection.

/Robert Johansson

Got some block, some limitation, some emotional, psychical or mental thing that drives you nuts or just overall crazy?

No matter what you tried, no matter what you tested it wont matter it holds you back.

You tried, yoga, you tried books you tried the CD, the DVD, the internet, the classes of NLP and new age as a last resort but still, its eludes you.

It just wont work.

Try RBIm for a life that works.

Most people just want something small and easy, like be happy, or have the stress removed or to do things easily.

So, here we set a new structural format, a new way of starting over to just do it.

I am applying this RBIm format to Golf, I apply it for the every day chores, the stuff I need to do, want to do and must do.

Doing that, lets me to do them, easily and smooth.
I can decide how its going to be to every task, or doing it a more general how a whole day should be like.

But people might believe, but you gifted, your talented your born lucky.

I am just like you, and people believe what they believe, still this doesn’t change facts, I am as normal people can be except that I like to investigate and invent stuff that makes peoples life, healthier, happier and funnier.

I set a goal today, that runs out the 1 of June, now, I seldom set goals, I did that to apply this and test this, how does this work using this protocol of RBIm to that?

Now, first I turned into this excuse I had, and it was a negation, so I thought gee, what to do now, run the NOTNLP protocol or do the RBIm with a new blueprint one?
ah those Choices.

So I decided to run the RBIm, as this would let me to an extent do a good test run with this.
So, I just did that, took me 5 minutes.

When elicited and set, it build a new structure and allows us to explore and experience what stuff is like ahead of actually having it.

Now, for some that sounds mystical, its kinda like that paradox of time travel, where we could go back in time, and then meet people and change or alter history, but here we travel to the future, allowing us to get an insight, aha this is how its like doing this and experience this, ahead of that I done it, as the brain will always fight a change if its not aligned according to the two major brain developments.

That is why you are stuck, or limited, you can only access one portion of this, and doing NLP or such methods might gain access to the other but it does so trough already establish sensory channels.

Its like asking people at the workshop, so what is your best day and how is it like?, now naturally people use memory, to choose a past best day, instead of going into the future, and solely, choose, the very best day ever.
After been asked and shown a future best day, this allow us to directly go there to just do it.
Then be shown how one holds this position no matter what, and every time we have it, its fresh and new.

Now, this could be true for you to.

You could have days that are exceptional, unorthodox and wonderful no matter where you live or do.

Its only a matter of where you have a set experience, from past or the future (your choice really), and then, build a bridge between that so its happening today and then, knowing how this works, allows you to just do it more and often as things like change or such becomes, so easy.

You might go from boring to exciting, from ordinary to happy, from silly to confident, from a looser to a winner.

You can go from stress to harmony without shifting anything in your environment.
I had a sister who just went stressed out at home until I showed her own experience of serenity.

Its doable, easier than ever before, meaning it isn’t simple but at least we can get a good practice program running.

But hey, when the audio goes live, you can try this yourself, listening to the process, will aid you doing this.

So, what is it that you want to, just do?

/Robert Johansson

What is the difference really?
If you ask me, its how well you feel daily.

Well being, the way we enjoy the daily tasks and daily things we do, no matter where we are or live, is an ability to be, in the moment living from an embodied approach, this changes how you perceive everything that is currently going on for us.

And how we judge this is by, behavioral responses.
No matter what we say, we must use behavior as a way to measure, as this will allow us to pinpoint and do the things that actually works.

If someone has an issue a problem, its easy to assume, to fix that, we fix the source of the issue.
If one has a external issue with a step mom, boss or such and believe the problem is with the boss or step mom, one must understand, how we feel, has nothing to do with other people.

If one has a internal issue, one where a trauma or such has caused damage, and we believe we must live our lives like this as, well if it once happen, well it can never be undone.

I often look at them and say, well the funny thing with people is that they believe this bad thing will actually happen exactly the same way again…
So, if you was robbed, beaten and such you then assume this will happen again and the funny thing with humans, its always going to happen the same way again.

That is how funny the brain is, so I tell people who had such experiences, well the same thing, cant happen again exactly the same way unless you time travel.
This allows them to drop the trauma, just like that.

Its due how the comparison mode and logic works as this when understood and accepted basically allows the individual to understand that, and as that is true, the incident in our memory, changes.
The contextual causality stops.
People don’t run the memory again and feed-froward this to happen again.

One of my students, had taken clients, did well, she then started to create a business and charge the clients, and suddenly her first client she got stuck with, and as I asked her, what was going on, what became apparent was she now shifted context, added a belief, she would take another set of responsibility due to her now charging money.
So, same situation (context), she does the same job, but she now get stuck and the client don’t get results.

So, her belief when one charged money had a dragging effect on her same job.

Now, if that can happen, I guess if we reverse that as I wrote earlier, then the same will happen, and it does.

This is why RBIm not just give a tool to set a new fresh blueprint, but the NOTNLP protocol with comparison mode allows you to understand the structure of experience and reality.

It can take someone who cant play golf due to them slicing the ball and drop 20 shots from a 15 minute intervention.
It also can drop a trauma of a memory that has hunted one where the phobia and fear of bridges and other behavior has resulted and just be gone in 15 minutes, which was the way I discovered the NOTNLP process.

So, using RBIm we got two set of processes, one where we can directly use a somatic set blueprint, or a logical comparison mode NOTNLP protocol, that allows one to use two different approaches, depending on what context one is in.

Now, then the question opens up, what do I do with his then?
What do I use this for?

Well, that I leave to you to choose, consider and do.

I live my life, enjoying it, and yours is yours to live.

/Robert Johansson

Who you are?

Well except you of course.
Must be a reason for that egocentric thing people often so likely display.

Awareness, is such a cool thing we become aware, of what is going on and we can actually wander or roam inside the contextual landscape that is our mind.
Now, some assume we can astro-project without our brain, good luck with that denial wankers.
Trying to think without our brain proving that we can exist without a psychical body shows some funny and silly remarks.

But we want to believe, we want that there is a mystery here,w e want to discover the initial spring of utopia or whatever.

I just a cynic here, its not that I don’t want mystery but as far I have worked and tried things I never found any mystical forces at work, no special ghosts, sure I found mystical experiences, especially for me unexplainable unless there is an explanation.

I often get questions as, why is this happening?

There is often as I uncover such then I find a plausible and true explanation that when I look on the internet, someone else haven’t found, and when I try to communicate this to someone who is in denial, the common response from NLP Trainers often refereed assholes.

Now, who we are, is something that springs from our brain development, its seldom any question you hear a lion ask, or a ping vine.
And as we become aware at age 4, we have developed two set of brains, that interact using comparison mode.
This allow us to either, stay in context identify with it, having a sense of timeless, and being able to be, within our own experience, and aware we have it as we enjoy having it, and this is doable and accomplished trough the RBIm technology.

Now, this comparison mode also allow us to stay out of context, to become what some calls disassociated. That isn’t true, we are always into a context somehow, just differently for each one.
Now, what I then propose goes against a lot of common used conceptual understanding of mind and behavior and the fun thing is, what I do works.
Its just easier.

I got a challenge coming up, a boy that has had a life as far that been interrupted by his school and his so called friends, and I be implementing the RBIm technology with him to rebuild a new reality.

Now, one might ask, who am I, the one asking the thing about the one I am?
This kind of questions run us in a loop, its called recursive consciousness and is doable for us due to our compression mode we have. Now, some as they talk about this, try to solve it using one brain mode, obviously this is why people for so many thousands of years have tried to solve the consciousness of man.

So, as I like to point out, seems I solve that.

I was one day many years ago sitting down waiting for a bus to arrive, and as I sat there, I did some NLP stuff as I always liked to do things and explore what did happen. Now, the one sitting there at that time, didn’t know what I know today, and obviously if that one I was back then, had knowledge of what I did today, he wouldn’t have understood either.

So, we ask, so is that memory I have, the one I am also and not?
It was most definitely one I was back then, not just anymore.
That doesn’t change I was there, sitting down waiting for the bus doing things.

However, I keep track of such, I don’t wander around, and as I don’t do that, I sit here writing this instead of walking out into the shiny great sun showing its light over the sky as I thought, I want to write this down now.
Its a choice.

Who you are, and who you wanna be, is a question of definition.

If you define it, I am always happy, then and you want that all the time, everywhere, that will interfere with people if you attend a funeral, people might shoot you since your not sincere.
That is why, we are always changing and moving trough time, and any one reality, any one context, wont ever happen, unless your truly ready to assume the idea that, this wont be accepted along the society you live in, and that is why some people go to live as a nun or a priest.

Time moves us, and as we assimilate new information we diverse and grow with that, so one day you realize, hey I cant do that anymore its not who I am.

You can simply check everything that you simply wont do in your life, that wouldn’t be who you are. That is one way one easily can verify what kind of person one is, and the answer will point one to, who one actually is.
Your using existing behavioral information to decide that.
Easy.

Now, asking oneself what is the experience of myself, being me?
Now as we ask such questions, people always and always and always access that source of information, all the time.

One good at adumbration the type of calibration taught in Mythoself will then have a obvious pattern to work and elicit just asking such question.
That is why people believe Joseph can do things in seconds and minutes but its misleading, he cant.
Oh, he want you to believe he can, but basically he cant.
Its called a self fulfilling prophecy.

So, since the awareness, the comparison mode allow us to become that, aware, of the duality, this created the idea of Christianity, that we are good and evil as we didn’t understand our own behavior…………………………………………………………….back in the dark ages.
No wonder, the myth of Jesus and such was created to try to solve the impossible at the time of the duality of mind.

People couldn’t understand their own behavior.
I met old people telling me straight up a ghost hide their bag, in their room. I told them, its called perceptual deletion a hypnotic phenomena that happens when the brain blocks out but she just told me straight up, no ti was a ghost.
For her, it was rational and made more sense it was a ghost.

Now, turn back 2000 years, when people didn’t have phones, no roads and couldn’t travel that far and there was no newspapers to talk about and people couldn’t tread. It is no strange diea people believed in mythological stuff as there was no explanation why a neighbor would kill his family, and so forth, then people assume the devil made him do it, the duality of mind.

I find as I grow older, that a lot of people want to believe and wont scrutiny the evidence and facts that either is there or not to support the claims.

Now today, we have a better tool and understandings due to NLP.
The stroke of what bandler and Grinder did, was to provide us with a way to understand why things work as they do and also, provide us with a scientific way to actually replicate and also to investigate what is going on , behavioral wise.

The logic of NLP is undeniable, and the evidence for such feats as astral projections and the likes, without any brain, is silly.

There is a ton of evidence I am right in this what I do and write, but that doesn’t mean people will like me or what I do as it demystify the thing people want to believe in.

One such thing was obvious yesterday, I met 4 people all that couldn’t understand why a boy could perform at home but not at school, and they even told me they was good doing what they do.
This is s situation that has escalated due to the school system has failed in the first place.
I have no issue understanding why the boy can do things at home and not at school.
For them, it was a mystery and also one where they tried to find a solution, and the mother just don’t want them to do investigations as this would face her and her son with the evidence of papers following him along in the school system alter on, and she is right, it will follow him.

So this is today at a school that should understand how people or kids do things but they even trained cant.

I posted and told people doing NLP things way back 10+ years ago, they couldn’t understand what I proposed as they couldn’t do it. What was more frightening, they didn’t wanna know or understand.
I also find it funny that people if they get better don’t wanna find out why.
If I get a treatment, and get better I ask around to find out why it works, if I meet people winning Olympic Gold medals, I ask them how they did it, that is a training I have had since a long time I always wanted to know how things worked, as it allows me to understand what I do and am better.

I also use this to invent, to create new things, I apply what I know to fields I like and enjoy so I test that and will find out if it works, and if not I investigate further.

So, I believe I might stumble upon why people who been great ball strikers in golf been like that, and its nothing like what anyone already published or teach. So, if it works, I can teach people to become great ball strikers.
Now, that is a hobby of mine to do such things.

I also wondered about this, who am I stuff for years, I used the knowledge from the comparison mode to test this out, to find out and test out who one was.
The answer is pretty obvious, but when one search its easy to stray of the path, believing anything.

The RBIm allows one as a model and technology to separate and sort, what a embodied experience is like, and a VAKOG (NLP) one is.
The difference is obvious for the one having it.

I don’t tell people attend a workshop telling them, well its your experience and then let that be as they do in Mythoself.

However, its something also that cant be told.

I had this student, done NLP for a decade or so, asking me, well how do I read faster?
My answer: read faster.
Now, I had to repeat that around 8 times or so before he got the message.
That is how much distortion that is going on in someones perception btw.

They believe they already know the answer is so they don’t hear the real answer.

The same is true about the RBIm technology being more and better than NLP, but the same perceptual phenomena occurs there, it will take a lot of time and people experience the RBIm technology and then I be admitted and accepted as the model that brought us beyond NLP and I get a noble prize.

Its like people telling me at a workshop, BUT this is what you write about?
Yes, exactly.

I did the NOTNLP protocol on stage, I did it step by step, proving you could do it live, make it work.
I also did every variation I could think of during the workshop to display the variety how the same structure is always there.
Now, I also elicited the position how one knows, live in the first demonstration I did, and that was something I haven’t even seen Joseph been able to do.
I asked him to do that back in 2004 in Mohonk, he failed.

Now, everything I write about is what I do on a workshop, eliciting a experience you want, might not be the answer I give you as the experience you end up might be different than you expect.

One guy asked me about motivation, I taught him the futurenow experience, having already done it, which created for him a serenity of peace, but he wanted to use drugs to skip his heritage his parents had him grow up with.
Finally he had what he always had dreamt about and then, he couldn’t understand how rare such a gift was to hold.
But, he couldn’t let it go.

One of the funny things I witnessed in Denmark back in 2003 was that even if Joseph was able to elicit the experience people didn’t know and understand what just had happen and they couldn’t hold onto it.
It was to much interference.

That is why the RBIm technology sets a clean blueprint in how the link between the somatic and cognitive awareness/focus/intention is set first.
This allow us to skip the GDS and such and do them later when the link is up so we understand, aha, this is how its like.

But then, who cares really about me what I do and what the world could gain from it?

/Robert Johansson

One of the things done differently here is the way we can choose a experience.
Last night I though hum, was some time when I had a day of doing nothing.

So today, I had such a day.

Doing Nothing.

/Robert Johansson

Reality today is much different than it was 50 years ago.

When we are in a technological era we get gadgets that makes things easier. Back in 1980 around 1200 people worked the mines in Kiruna, today its like 150 or less and shrinking and today the mine produce more ore than it did 1980.

Now, external events are easier to understand than internal in how our mind works.

One might ask me, so if I do this RBIm, then what would be the difference for me?

You be moving your experience and perception to a vestibular access meaning, you be having a body oriented experience of your life vs the causality based one your most likely currently is having.
The RBIm allows us to re-shape reality as what we have experienced, don’t mean we are trapped into what has been true for us.
This allow us to experience or perceive the external world differently, as the events no longer means the same for us.
Once I was a sport fanatic, I watched a lot of sports, today, I seldom even lift an eyebrow when sports are shown.

When we shift to a more body we shift our attention inwards which allow us to track in real time our own experience as we are having it, this is a shift in perceptual reality, which is what happens when we have our own experience.
This inward attention keeps or locks our position in how we set the sensory array the VAKOg and we can then wander around, within that internal experience, and then experience the world from that experience and obviously, this is different than most people ever had.

How is it like winning a Olympic medal, how is it like working with someone and they suddenly release decades of stress?

Its like saying, you had to be there.

Using time lines as NLP does only shifts peoples VAKOg events, and if done properly, the position might shift along the way but it is a complicated and also, basically still set the VAKOg or causality as the major way to experience reality, and basically it also often extends that making it worse.

Now, I know its kinda cool to explore stuff that happens in our minds, to adjust something, so a shift happens, and most never realize we are always shifting our experience, however, most keep going believing they always have the same experience when they are not.
Then, to say as I do, but isn’t that the same as you teach then?

No, what I teach allows you to differentiate when the one or the other is running.

Either your running your experience, or the experience is running you.

That is where Intention comes handy, we can by focus our awareness, shift our span of attention towards something else, and this allows us to re-direct our own experience in real time.
Its like having one set of experience, and suddenly, just shift focus, and go into this other experience, just by being attentive.

Its not about changing one experience, add resources to it, and smack it hard and integrate it, no, here we just simply shift our attention point, towards a future experience, allowing our body to perform its duty.

I ask people doing sports, how is it like doing this thing, and already done it?
They go, what?
I say,w ell you when your doing this does it like that and how is it like having already done that for you?
When they have that, in experience, and keep the same position inwards attentive, running this they are able to experience the nirvana of sports.

The ultimate experience, enjoying the thing you do and doing it in flow, perfect or in the way you like it.

Its like going into the higher levels of mind, the same one people want to experience what they do and still be doing it.
This is the level of performance the very best athletes get when they are doing the zone.
However, this also means they are loosing themselves in the process as who we are isn’t there then.

Jan-Ove Waldner was in his last Olympic start, doing and playing a game that was extraordinary at his age, and he won and as he did that, he woke up and this can be seen on camera after the match-ball is done, he stated after, he didn’t know where he was, and also who he was playing like that. In the next game, he couldn’t repeat that level of performance and lost.

Now, when we fully identify with the context, we also tend to loose the concept of self as this isn’t hold as it once was, its a new set of context guiding us, the ball, the external contextual parameters, and this is the same as the demonic states John Grinder and De Lozier investigated where the performance we do, we transcend our experience to be, one with the performance.
Now, many never learn to do this, as NLP is somewhat not able to teach people to do so safely.

The idea of our self, being something tied to our soul or body or somewhat else often limit our performance, as there is no such as all we are is tied to what we attach to it.
I tell people I coach, if you want it, you can be the nr1 in the world in your sport.
Requires hard work, and dedication but its there in their experience if they so choose.

When we are able to enter such experience where we suddenly are able to transcend our experience of what we are or who we are, suddenly people understand.
What most wants to do is to keep the one self they once did learn to be, and then to believe its like this due to my previous experience, this is, who I am now.

So, I get this girl coming to see me, after 2 years of therapy she is basically a mess.
So I ask her, who she was, and as she searched fort he answer which took around 12 hours for her.
Until then, I waited until she could give me an answer, and she was scarred, unhappy, badly self confidence no trust in herself basically she wasn’t worth anything.
Now, as soon she could give me an answer, all her problems went away.
Much to her and her boyfriends surprise.

Suddenly she wasn’t bound and tied to her past experience, she was free.

As I did in the November workshop, so what is your best day like I asked?
Obvious, the first response was, like this and I asked, is it based upon what has been your best day or a day that might come from the future being an even better day?

Naturally it was noted, it was a causality based upon past to present reference.
So I said, what if you just had a future only reference of your best day ever?
Now, as she did that, suddenly she understood the difference, between past experience and defining life from the past to the future instead of using the future to present.
I then elicited her own way to know its like this, and she could then keep this position and as she accessed her experience, it was all new every time.
The same but new.

You wish your sex life was like that everyday right?

Now, she went from a NLP, VAKOG or representation way to understand her world, to a internal inward vestibular experience, and this shifted everything she once believed to be true about stuff.
Its hard to understand this without the proper experience, as this is the level when people get how the phrase let go fits in, its like this idea people can just let go of a past memory or past experience, they cant.
It doesn’t compute for them as they are told to let it go.

Now, as she had this kind of experience, and note it works, she now has control over how she will react to external events, based either upon her own internal experience or not.
Then, she can choose and decide, is this the experience I want to have, and if not, shift, just like that.

Its the shift of our decision point, now in NLP its called the T.O.T.E and there is a added idea where the way people use information and then creates a decision point.

Now, normally people use a past reference (memory) to decide what the future the upcoming task will be like and evaluated against the past reference.
This is what people do that are afraid, they take the task they are going to do, and then based upon past often a bad experience, they link this to a task they never have done, and then feel bad about it in advance, even before they done it….

When I am about to do something I always think its easy either I done it before or going to do a new thing.

Now, this create a experience, about an experience we haven’t done yet and people often ask me, I cant do that future experience thingy as I am never sure about the future.
I haven’t ever done that before.
I go, you do it now.

To ask the question, I cant do it, imply they have done it, in their mind and then decided, they cant do it.
Ah, note I can use NLP really well if needed to explain the causality of human beings.

So, I teach people to do one thing differently, time travel to a future experience and decide in advance how good it will be and then set that as the new reference point, before doing a task.
Now, doing that, using VAKOG as they do in NLP doesn’t work.

You need to use a embodied approach as RBIm does it.
Then it will be easier and also safer.

You be aware of the difference, as I did the workshop, I commented, and asked people about their experience they had, and they didn’t need to leave it, and let it go, they could still do it even when talking about it.
That is due to when one knows how one holds or keeps the position then its like this.
One could say its ones own internal anchor, however, its more than that, as it is working even when one would be depressed where the NLP anchoring would fail, this then would work.
Little is known about the vestibular system, its one of the system that holds balance but also have other functions not known at current time.

We learn to orient us after how we perceive the world trough our five senses, we create time and the track of time trough those, creating a sense of start and ending.
When one does that, we also to a degree robs ourselves of some other particular interesting experiences, where one can stay within one, being one, with the environment or context.

This kind of experience, is not supported in the society most live in today, its do this now or rather yesterday.
Then learning to support the post 4 years of age where this becomes the dominant way we experience our surroundings, its also creates the ex-tense of habit to believe and think the world is, causality based.
When one have this kind of experience, one absolutely know the difference, and what many cant understand, if its so great why don’t people always stay in it?

Some do.

I have done change-work for 15+ years and done trainings for 10+ and for me, the same experience is always there when I work.
In that context, it never changes, its just great.

Now, obviously we can do that but also, what kind of experience would we like to be running constantly if we had a choice?

Timelines in all respect, but removing people from the experience seems a troublesome way to make people more dead than alive if u ask me.

One benefit of running such experiences from a future point reference, are that we can judge the action we are about to do based upon previous failed experience, and if we use sports as an example, maybe you make a huge mistake, and then you just don’t dwell on it, you just shift gear into keeping track of your future one, and the mistake basically never happen and cant influence your next action.

Now, if you believe the future isn’t real I got news for you, the future is as real as your current past, as your past basically is just a remembered event, that differs from the future on one single variable, that you actually did the things you did remember. However, many scientific research points that our memory is filled with gaps, and we constantly are updating those based upon associations, so what we remember, are changing even when we believe its always the same.

Now, as we are seldom aware of that as our current consciousness and awareness as it is, how can it be different?
It cant.
As it is, it is.

Then the comparison mode kicks in and we suddenly become aware of the context we are within.
This allow us to either shift experience to a better one or enter a worse one.

I have talked to sports people, and told them, when they try to explain to me what the problem is, and I say, well lets assume for a moment the following, I want you to demonstrate for me this perfect move in their sport.
Now, obviously they will try tell me, they cant do that, obviously as they have a problem.
So, I continue, well I understand that but do what I ask you first then we talk.

So, in a moment, they go like they can just do, what they just couldn’t do, just like that.
They look at me as I did some magic.

I go, what?

This is impossible!

It is? I say.

Yes, this isn’t possible!

So, I witness something that is both impossible and possible?

Yes!

Aha.

People have beliefs and assumptions about what is doable based upon previous past reference and since everyone is telling them it cant be done, then it cant be done. I just use a future reference where it is done, and then its doable, obviously…

That is why I love what Oliver did, talking to a lady who shots 100 in golf is like a real amateur, then to go to 80 shots after a 15 minute talk is like, impossible for the pga golf trainers, its not doable for them. You just cant drop 20 shots like that, its not possible.

Its like the Hank Haney Project with the basketball guy, who couldn’t swing, he failed with him to improve his swing playing the game, and its due to them lacking tools of how the mind and body functions doing athletic performance.

Now, as soon we use the future experience, that haven’t happen yet, but as we access it, set the criteria what the quality of our experience should be like for us, say, perfect or flow, or in the zone, as we then establish that, we have that experience, untainted and new and fresh every time like this as we taught ourselves this is the experience I want to have to perceive this thing I do.

Growing up, people around you teach you how to be and your formed from that a lot, now, there is a opportunity to cast those shackles loose, to uncover what is doable, possible and impossible and having fun doing it.

You set new contextual variables, attach new set of experience to the context, and then you can create basically just about any experience, and then, find out what its like having such experiences.

Come timetravel with me.

/Robert Johansson