Super special you

So, what about you is that super special?

Now, before your having a knee jerk reaction, and spoof the answer, lets assume you are, super special and if so, how would you already know it was like that?

Every individual I meet, I notice they all is uniquely individually them, I haven’t been able to categorize human beings in any number of generalizations except they are all human, and I guess that is all right except when the humans become not human.
However, as I note every client, every one I meet, they are all uniquely them.

Now, some might forgot their super special self, that they don’t for some reason think they are mundane and ordinary and I say, oh boy far from it.

Obviously I choose to note human beings as they are, for themselves, and I guess many never do that as we treat people the same due to having beliefs about how people are before we meet them, I seen even the Mythoself trainers do that, its not something people naturally do it seems.

So, your super special, now find out what makes you super special, and then do it again and I bet my ass you be surprised in doing so.

Many believe its their beliefs that makes them special, but we know better, its the behavioral cues, the way we as some would say, present ourselves that glows and become noticed in the dark.

Some have super special integrity, its just a word, but for some this is also a code, a honor they live by, and nothing would make them compromise that, they are and are having great integrity.
In America its popular to say we have this set of values, in movies people state things as, don’t kill them and lower yourself to their level, its a value society, and we all know how a value based society will become, shit in the end.

Values are not super special, they change to much, its to easy to value one thing and then walking inside Oprah, making suddenly new behaviors treating friends one value as the enemy.
Its the reason people value and also why some react so violently as this can shift trough contexts.

So, we want to find something super special that ranges across contexts, that is solid that arise above any so called values and become, in manner of speaking, the definition of how one define oneself.

We don’t need to change anything about you, we allow us too enter a new experience, where this, is true.
For some, this seems out of reach, its not doable, its not who they are, and I go, well have you ever defined who you are, and if so, how would you know that is proper and correct?

I had a flashback yesterday evening, I was reading a book and a memory from 1995 or so popped up, as I sat there waiting for a bus in the summer, and as I waited I remember doing some NLP stuff. Now, at the time I didn’t know anything else, I never did any NLP classes that was good, I didn’t know much and today as I know a lot more, its not that I know more to do more, its I know more to do less and in fact nothing.
Now, my memory just showed up, and I asked, why did it come up now, what did I read that allowed this to happen?

To be super special, one must be able to define that, and be able to have it across contexts.
This means, no matter if you eat breakfast, taking a shit, walking to work, working, having a bad day, being at the scene of an accident, being with your family, shopping, listen to music etc…

What kind of definitions would allow you or me or anyone else to be consistently like that?

Well one is that you always are moving in all those contexts, so the definition of you is a natural anchor.

To be super special is something you choose, you decide, to be that or not, its not anything your born with, having luck with, its what your do choose.
Now, many choose to be mean, annoying, irritating, and basically waste their life thinking they are noting special at all.

Your special, even super special to me.
(Keep a note if you need of that.)

To get this down into behavior, one must be able to identify with the context, within oneself.
If what people state is true that we never ever can really know what real is due to our senses and how they are constructed, but I don’t buy that, its seems like what people perceive is real, and the nature of perception is it shifts as easy as the wind blows down the hall.

If you got a spouse, write down what makes them super special to you.
Or having a kid, and as you do that, its much easier to then, identify the same traits in you.
Now, also, give them the note later telling them, this is what I perceive that is super special about you for me.

You might note this, its across contexts, its always there, and never shifts.
That, allows it to be super special.

Let the comments flow.

/Robert Johansson