What would have happen if I made a different decision?

Regrets for example are things we remember due to us wanted to make another decision instead of the one we made.
It’s that simple.

We can always ask that we make a different priority, and that is our humanity, we make do what we got, as we seldom been educated and trained to ask, what is important here and for whom?

If we are in business, what is the wisest direction to go?
For amd, a company for cpu and gpu their decisions was to make a videocard that was small, efficient, low power and they bought up ati to make a fusion between cpu/gpu.
Nvidia choose a different route, they wanted to make fast, powerhungry and big die gpu, which in combination with the manufacturing process was a failure for them.

In the tech industry, they shrink the node to make a transistor, from current 40nm to 28nm, a nanometer is small, much smaller than a hair straw.
In each shrink, they enter issues with the productions, power leaks happens as the transistors become so small, they leak current between the walls.

So, the engineers come up with solutions and we are soon moving from silicon (sand) to metal.

Now, a company choose a direction, due to their life cycle is maybe 2 years, or even more as the next generation cpu and gpu is planned ahead with more than 3 years. Amd decided to use 32nm for their new gpu the 6000 series this upcoming October, however, 32nm was canceled and 28nm was the new target, but that process won’t be ready for another year, so amd scaled back the design to 40nm.

Other business have shorter cycles, a newspaper have its own cycle, one paper a day, meaning everything is organized differently there than a tech company.

It’s important when we think about regret what could have been that we also keep in mind we make decisions, and we sometimes make the wrong one even if it seems like the right one at the time.

Back in 1985 I choose to stay home and enter a 2 day class with education of become a trainer in karate, and at the time, I also had tickets to Bruce Springsteen who was making his, born in the USA tour.

Now, when I made the decision I thought I made the right one, but when I did enter the class I knew it was the wrong one as the class sucked ass.

My ticket was however given to someone that enjoy the concert, someone who wouldn’t have got there otherwise, as she was crying in a wagon of public transport, my friends saw that and offered her my tickets.

I go back and think about my life and think is there something else I regret?

Yes there is, but that one with the concert is the big one, as the result and effect of that decision was and become as it did, wasn’t in the line what I desired.

I make mistakes. Often a lot of them, and I move on and go on in spite of those, as I was taught NLP and used it, I also made effective work using NLP but I also saw the bad negative effects of using NLP as I was taught, one, it didn’t work for business, as I did that, I noted it sucked ass and I guess that is why bandlers business was a mess for years and still is.

So, I had to look elsewhere, I met people doing business, people they hire to fix their business, and I had to coach those guys as they couldn’t handle getting paid and become stressed out from that pressure of getting paid too much and then having to deliver the results.

I am not a business person I can do it as is it down with people running million dollar business and I hear them talk about what they do and I ask them, why do you do this this way and they can’t answer me and they are NLP trained by Bandler and they can’t do this in a way that actually works.

Its like, hey we got a customer here, that treats us badly, they are English based, which means they got the English culture with them, and then the flat ass Swedes trying to negotiate with them from fear of losing their customer….so I thought, gee, this is the guy that runs a million dollar business with bandler training behind him and he is running his business from fear of losing a customer?

Then I get shit from people that thinks they know what they are doing when they don’t and more they believe they know they do.

Back in the days of Russia, Stalin was a worse tyrant than the royals they killed and replaced, he made mass murder a hobby and then one scientist with an idea of how to make farming better got his ear, so he made the rest of the scientist who protested killed or moved to Gulag, which meant death by slow work. His ideas didn’t work, but he got the ear of Stalin who made the calls.

Critic, is a bad thing for many, I enjoy it, as it is no better way to find the truth and scrutiny its own life and business and such. NLP for example for me is a dubious technology due to how it is taught and used, and since I don’t agree on how it is taught and used, I make my voice heard out there and I am planning a post that will shake peoples convictions about NLP a lot.

I don’t expect people to be perfect, I know I am not, and I see how people aren’t that also, but then, what we do as human beings, is to go to this place where we enter something that is hard to explain, it’s like love, true love means, we do anything for someone else which often scruple free people use to steal and cheat and make bad things.

Let strive to become better, let make ourselves a little bit better each day, let our wisdom develop and let us find ways to share that so we can, make our environment a little bit friendlier than it can be.

How to do that without a hard look in the mirror is a denying the fact.

I live with my flaws, which means someone else doesn’t have to.

The notion people have about making others in their own image never seize to surprise me, why would we need more of you in this world?
Isn’t it enough with one of you?

Letting people be who they are, is what I am trying to convey and most have a hard time with that concept as it directly violate the human nature we want people to be like us, as if they aren’t, they then are different and that means, often bad.

I had 12 people, all being different than me, and they all wanted me to be like them and if I wasn’t, they become upset.

So, why is that why are people always trying to make other people to be like them instead of just accepting, they are different?

We make decisions, seldom do we think trough that that decision will lead to, as I make a decision nowadays for example if I buy a toy, I get something I will enjoy and have benefits from which doesn’t mean it will always be to my liking, as I buy things I expect them to met a specific criteria, and that don’t always happens, that the thing I get does what I intended it to do.

I bought a mouse pad yesterday, as I did I wanted to improve my pad and thought this might do it, I found however that the pad was too good, the mouse glided too much.
So, it didn’t meet my expectations, it still is a great mouse pad that someone else might enjoy or that I use it for another computer as I got two of them.

Sometimes we make a buy and we find out what we already have is perfect, so as I played yesterday I find out that my current pad, is perfect for me, so now I can enjoy the mouse movements even more when I realize that its perfect for me.

Now, some might go, hey isn’t that unconscious then that you didn’t know?

Let us enter the comparison mode, the age 4 development period.

As we do things and identify with context, we can do that and we can also, compare that with a similar experience which let us find out what it’s like being aware of identification.

What has happen with the concept of the unconscious was the unawareness of FREUD that Bandler and Grinder further used to persuade people to NOT question what they did and do.

They even teach like that, Grinder use the discovery pattern, do this drill and find out what he already knows which confused Robert Dilts who believed he found the model of the eye model, when in fact both grinder and bandler knew about it, they just wanted to see if Dilts would find it also. Now, think about it, bandler use hypnosis, unconscious when in fact it’s a myth.

When we don’t know, we use an analogy, to compare this with that, it’s that way we choose to explain things to people, make a comparison and why do we do that?

Let me use a story (analogy) as we organize information, we do so by context.

Now, there is two context, one is the outside one, the coffee you drink, but the taste of coffee, the pleasure of sitting there drinking it, has nothing to do with that environment or context, that is addition we do to the context of drinking coffee.

Wine taste like vinegar for me.

My tongue rolls upon itself.

Some say it’s the best thing since the invention of sex.

We can indulge into different contexts, as we do, we also seldom choose what to identify with, it becomes a random selection of trial and error. So, what we do here is to decide, this is my experience with this context, this I want to experience with my kids, with my spouse with my friends etc

So, I regret something as I recall the event, I today understand why I made that choice, and why I decided to do things as I did, as I expected things without checking the facts and the experience that would be there.

In many ways this regret also made me aware of what is important and why it’s important for me.

With this new technology, it’s become much easier to convey the message and concepts, even if it isn’t that simple to talk about spiritual or such matters without becoming a giant nerd of new age, there is also this practical thing we can learn to do, so it makes the environment of the outside become, the one we have on the inside in a way that we decided it to be like that.

To get there, we must do a triple bypass.

First we acknowledge that we identify the environment of context, the outside, and then understand we reflect this outside context on the inside in our own personal subjective way.

Then to understand and most importantly REALIZE that is how it works, allow you to understand, that you’re able to modify it at will and generate your own experience inside yourself that then, becomes the source to the outside, instead of the other way around.

You’re a product as far of what the outside world has imprinted upon you.

Happy with that?

If not, there is a choice and option to start generating the structural form, that allows you to become the master of your own destiny.

I guess that is appropriate for an alternate reality.

/Robert Johansson

It was an everyday morning, as he woke up he heard the radio play it’s the end of the world my RME.
Another day in paradise he said as he swung his legs to the bed side.

As we wake up we immediately go into where am I mode.
So memory serves us, we anchor us back into where we are and what we are suppose to do.
Its automatic and for some this is what they do every day going about it the same way every day.

Now, if we choose to do so, and intend things to be so, I guess that is fine as that would include a sense of purpose, some sense of meaning that what I do here is meaningful for some reason.

Now, we can do things for many reasons, what I referencing here is when we become the victims of habit and we stop making a choice.

In the movie groundhog day Bill Murray is stuck in time, and is reliving the same day for years and years and naturally some have asked how long?
He did learn to play the piano, become a expert card thrower, and he died a lot of times during these days.
This guy speculated he spent 10 years http://www.wolfgnards.com/index.php/2009/06/16/how-long-does-billy-murray-spend-in-grou there.

According to the writer he stated 30+ years.

So, what is it like, when you go from having and generating your own experience to compare that with your old way?

In Bill Murrays world I guess 30+ years.

/Robert Johansson

Ever tried to stop doing something you done for a long time?

Tough, hard or complicated involving frustrations, anger and leaps of faith?

Willpower is a cool thing, we can want something so bad we get a seizure looking at a dress in a shop or getting that smoke or drink or that last candy bar and I wont even start about sex.

But willpower don’t get us anywhere, right?

Sure it feels great, I am in command, I am deciding and then I do it again and again no matter the willpower as it last only as long we can keep doing it and in the end the chocolate wins out.

So, what is going on then as willpower doesn’t cut it, isn’t it a conscious and consciousness man we are? The Bandler rhetorical answer would be, ass, hole or such since he is very elegant with words.

He would say its your conscious mind that fucks things up, your unconscious runs thing its great and I go GEE Bandler surely that is why you took drugs, tried to escape your childhood in spite of all NLP as it allowed you to re frame anything…..right fellows?

So, we go and ask, what if I use Intention then what happens and what is the difference to that and willpower except the name?

Willpower is a wishing tool, hope, desires, but that is about it.
Intention however is a much more subtle yet powerful ally.Action is created with Intention, as you desire stop smoking for example, you can will it but the smoke wins out, or you can set Intention create a new context and stop in an instant. I met people that just decided and stopped, like a snap of the fingers they never had cravings, they never had smoke start over issues, they just stopped.

I noted nothing in NLP described that, there was no models to answer to that, and the answer was found in the work of Roye Fraser.

How come such a decision can be made, and then made without any withdraws?

Just like this?

Entering action.

What is required to create action?

Intention is the answer.

What creates Intention?

I never found any client had any issues to stop doing things, but some clients got this idea that they knew better than me, so they didn’t do what I suggested, as they didn’t do that, they ended up in a loop, their choice if you ask me so I let them be.

Sure I could have persuaded them but hey you got to respect peoples will right?

Think about something you are going to do or planning to do.
Now, as you think about that for a moment, let us investigate it, are you motivated to do it?

Most find that they need to build motivation to do things, or else they put it up forever, right?

The motivation is lacking due to we must set intention to create the action from a future standpoint.
Going to the beach, people as in according to NLP have different strategies to do things, some are more efficient and elegant even excellent.

Now, I ask people to enter and move into a future reality, as they do that, what is now goes into the past and stays there. So, if we focus our attention and where we focus it is important, and most people have no idea how to do that properly that is why RBIm includes that.

Its like Bodil, she get this perfect day thing going for 3 months and then start slipping from it, as she did that she didn’t ask herself, hey why am I doing this maybe she did ask that and as she should have asked, so how do I get back into that daily experience maybe she tried that and failed, and then she ends up asking me, again about that, so I go, I don’t do things like that, you fix it. Naturally she get pissed off, angry even, as she assumes as many does, that what she is experiencing is produced by her unconscious without her consent, right?

So, if you have this thing you going to do or planning to do, ask, where is my attention with this, going to do it, it is planned to do, its already done, where is your focus about this thing?

So, I ask, so its already done, you have that experience, and ask, so how is that and people go great, I feel like its easy and simple and they got all the motivation as they now have Intention with a future reference and the experience of it.

People got beliefs and assumptions about themselves if we don’t do things, we might ask, hey why don’t I enjoy this thing? And then think do I want to enjoy doing it if so, what would that be like enjoying it like this?

Nothing would ever be boring again.

Figure that be fun?

I set a goal this spring about my golf and I am failing it big time in results.
I got to make a swing change that simple put set me back a year.

Now, that makes me annoyed, irritated, frustrated and angry even.
Still I achieved the following, a swing that makes me hit the ball long, the way I wanted, I got pro level short game, and lacks consistency, if I had that I be shooting scores that I dream about.

Still even that I got a few more weeks playing golf even if summer is almost gone, I got a few rounds to go here. I think I got it down so I can make it consistent, and repeatable. But I failed the timetable and goal I got but I also achieved a lot of goals to get there.

I cant make the cut as I need to loose 6 shots in a few weeks and that seems not that plausible as I yet have only made 2 rounds under 80 this year, that I had a game that was 15 shots better doesn’t count as it wont matter as the result haven’t been there in the score.

I got the willpower alright down. The Intention is there also and my experience playing is great.

If we create action we can do a lot of things so we organize the action so it leads us where we want to go.

The future contextual reality.

So, its plausible to create a lot of action but if it isn’t channeled down the route we want to go we can spend a lot of time doing things that doesn’t work that well.

How do I know this works, when I never done it before?
Well we use faith.

Simple really.

That allow us to free up our brain, it now have a direction to go, future context with experience, it aligns that with our focus of attention, we take care of the belief loop and use faith which leaves us a open loop and we get a iconic experience.

Creating massive action towards where we want to be.

Now, I can have all the willpower but without Intention I don’t get anywhere.

That is why the RBIm drill teaches that specifically, its the single most important thing to get right, as it builds the rest.

I can teach a client to have a life, and fail big time with students.

My brain went, hum what is the difference here?

The client had a Intention set to get this fixed, and as I worked as I did, they just did what I taught so they got it down.

If they got stuck with therapy, which I had a few clients who been to months, weeks, years even 17 years…of therapy and people ask me why I think therapists suck ass helping people????????

GEEEEE what can be behind my reasoning that if I get to see someone to help me I will get better and be off on my way as fast as possible, right?

So, obviously I got a different intention doing change work or teaching or writing a blog as this as someone got to say things that simply doesn’t fit even when everyone else is sticking their head into the sand listening for bandlers famous last words.

So, run a mind probe, think about this experience this event you planned to do, and ask, if I did it, and it was already done, how would that be like for me in experience and if I already had done it, what kind of experience would I have liked to have doing it?

Your brain maybe goes, fun, sporty, easy, fast, efficient, sexy or whatever.

So, now you done it, had a experience you wanted to have doing it, so you now collide with beliefs, doing that task is neither easy nor fun, and you can change how the task is and I look at people telling me that and ask them how come other people enjoy doing the same thing and laugh doing it?

Its a choice, its a decision we make and then we make it real, so we assume learning RBIm for example is hard, though and IT CANT BE DONE, famous last words from Steve down under…
He not only was thinking about going to Sweden for the workshop, from frigging Australia that is like 25 hours of flight…for a 3 day workshop, wasn’t he nuts and then thinking there is no way he can learn it?

He went trough NLP training so I don’t blame him.

So, why even learn something before you start doing it thinking it is impossible for yourself? Why even try? Why even spend money on it????

He had faith I guess.

I spent money on things I consider today wasted, but at the time I thought gee, that sounds great and as I entered I found out I could already do most of those things taught, and I basically paid for a confirmation that I already possessed the skills taught,

Expensive and stupid today.

But then, I didn’t know what I know today.

I got 15+ years of 24/7 things about this field, and I sometimes forget people haven’t had such waste experiences about life or people and when I talk to people that don’t know me, they are in the what the fuck is he talking about mindset a lot.

Then I sing, then I dance and then I laugh in the shining light of life.

Enjoying life wonderfully

You can to, it isn’t a one man or girl show here.

/Robert Johansson
Part time hero and legend.

The NLP world is a funny one, its like this, John Grinder co-founder of NLP say you cant model a emotion and I guess he tried. I guess he missed the lecture of mirror neurons.

So another fool enters the mix, one that always recommend his books and such he wrote about patterns to deal with for example emotions.

A phobia is a V/K or A reaction often, which means, its a intense fear with a visual element and a Kinetic response (fear) but that isn’t the only way a phobia can be present just that it is the most common one. Phobia is handled in NLP by disassociating, meaning using various distractions (NLP techniques) to elevate the shift from a kinetic response to a robotic where the fear isn’t present anymore and often the practitioner associate something else to the past phobia.

Guilt is a reversed phobia according to the same NLP fool, which means the guilt is a emotion that the response to the emotion is the issue, blaming oneself for something one once did acts like one.

So we can say that guilt is a K/A or V response where the idea of NLP intervention is to create a subset of new representations or in English, replace the old ones with new ones.

Sounds cool and it is, I don’t argue with NLP I was after all one of the best out there of applying NLP practically at a level of Bandler/Grinder etc…

So can we model a emotion, of course we can.

I sat people in the same emotion before, and some might argue it isn’t the same emotion they have as they are not in the same body, but the emotion is the same, the word they might use might differ though which many think is the real answer, hey I think this is giddy, and some other go no I think its biddy, so they argue about the same emotion the just shared.

Emotions can be shared, that is the key essential aspect of rapport one of the pillars of NLP, and I cant say I am surprised by John Grinders typical response as he is a minimalist and obviously he would state that, as he don’t want do it and that he also teaches by discovery patterns, he sends people to do drills to discover things, seldom telling people about stuff.

So, basically the argument is moot if anyone asks me, sure you can model a emotion, but that isn’t what people want, they want their own version of it, remember the subjective reality people tend to have?

Its assumed in NLP that you find out how things works, using the mapping patterns, like the meta-model or other models so we find out how the phobia works then we can fix it, or we find out how guilt, regret, fear etc…so we can fix them.

Its assumed the way people do this using a process that is unconsciously produced can be altered using different NLP mind control techniques by addressing the process alone unconsciously meaning you have no idea what they just did, you just feel better.

To address the process you don’t need to know how they do it which is why so many NLP Practitioner sucks doing NLP as they apply NLP techniques as the phobia cure before they know if it is a phobia or not and then they blame the training and NLP when it didn’t work. That is why Bandler trainings are so bad quality nowadays.

The main difference here would then be, if the process is known, then the NLP Practitioner would know what to do to fix the issue and that is true if they do KNOW what is going on but to do that requires years of training to get proficient doing things like that.

Now, NLP is a detailed approach, you identify the problem, find the process how it works for the clients particular subjective reality, right? You then pull out a NLP technique to fix it, right?

RBIm for example is a whole or united approach, we fix the so called problem the same we would treat a broken leg, a mental issue, or emotional one the same way, with fixating us with the future experience which also then allow you to be flexible in your behavior, and create new behaviors where you had no such ones before.

Its the approach Milton H Erickson used one of the originators of NLP models.

This means, the future is held fixed, the experience of the future then create the new reality.

This includes things as behaviors and altering of processing and such.

So, RBIm becomes easy to learn, as shown in the video, as one learns to access a somatic/cognitive integration, this allows one to arise to a level of interaction with ones own mind where the need of NLP goes away, there isn’t any need to fix what is broken like fear or guilt, or regret and other so called distressed emotions.

Keeping the future constant, allows one to free up resources, where your able to go beyond yourself.

You become free.

You become a beacon of hope and light.
You become a hero or heroine in your own right.

Now, you need different skills to handle a broken leg vs a distressed freaked out psycho (unless you just shoot them – The Bandler approach), however, skills are different in logic than for example emotions or logic for that matter, as skills are often specific for the task at hand and obviously it would be handy to learn to breath methane, but our body cant do that and we cant with any tool teach peoples body to breath methane, we die, no matter the approach except if we use a suit with good air. But then obviously we don’t breath methane….

We just die.

Skills haven’t much to do with your focus of attention, your own experience and if your having a future held reference, in your interaction with co-workers, friends and such like family, what happens is you transcend the experience to what some would call a higher level.

For them, their interaction doesn’t display the same behavior they had for years, like a phobia or guilt or such, they instead feel great due to them using a future experience, without fixing the phobia or guilt which is in direct opposite of NLP – here you don’t need to fix the problem, you find out how to create a new future which seems like more fun if you ask me.

What is then the benefit of RBIm then doing it this way?

First you don’t need to debate NLP, and argue about why the noodle is al dente or if your dick is hard enough or if your pussy wet enough. NLP has become a debate of definition and that we all know can be open for debate a long time.

Did Bandler lie about NLP he most surely did and he stated they do that in NLP so you cant believe him nor John Grinder and it shows up in their track record over the years, you cant trust them. They will lie to you anytime they like due to them reality is a particular subjective view (theirs) and who cares if I tell this noob a lie? The noob might but then again they don’t question or think for themselves anyhow.

Every time I got to deal with the co-founders of NLP and their students they have I got to check the facts and figures as they will lie and distort everything as they see fit. I ask a Bandler trained trainer of NLP Gabe Gurerro a question and he goes paranoid and accuse me of stuff that isn’t true, and my brain goes, to much bandler time. Gabe lost his soul.

So, let ask us, hey RBIm, we got this dude or girl, I know your ladies read stuff here also, they got an emotion, like guilt, fear, and as it is tied to a context, and has specific behaviors, like running away, thoughts happening, feelings arisen, and the nervous system become cold, it activates the primal brains, fight or flee response which funny enough is mostly flee for some reason.

So I go, it is what our brain is trained to do trough evolution, we must remember things to survive that is what our brains are doing for us, it allow us to remember events we can hardly recall so we can identify the emotion first, ever thought about that, why we cant talk about the phobia fear at all? If we talk about the phobia, the client goes into emotional response, just like that.

If we talk about guilt, we can talk all day.

So, phobia fear, associated.
And guilt, dissociated,
and the NLP people want you to run guilt dissociation to the phobia and phobia to the guilt. Meaning the inverse process of the fear and guilt, is applied which would work.

Now, the issue here that I argue to them is that the NLP people don’t know what they are doing due to them don’t know how peoples subjective reality works. Its funny as they study that and don’t know how it works. Now, they then develop means to handle that inconsistency, which allowed Bandler to use hypnosis and even more to confuse and alter your brain chemistry and I would think twice before letting him do that as he will lie if it suits his purposes.

NLP always works within a contextual reality.
That is how it is taught and trained.

I was highly effective using NLP as I did NLP that did work not what was taught.

RBIm is the continuation of that, its not like I teach stuff that is old or was good 10 years ago, I teach what I find to be the most effective approach based upon research and tests.

The phobia or guilt exists for the individual for them it is real, right?
Its not like their brain knows the difference anyhow, or they be feeling silly or foolish after understanding their fear or guilt isn’t real, its the brain believing it still is…

If you was fucked in the ass, unwillingly, for many that leaves scars, not just in the ass, but emotional ones also, blame, guilt, shame, and such with rage, anger, frustration, and a lot more can form a individuals life. (Anyone can be fucked in the ass, guys can be raped the same way girls are)

They were betrayed, assaulted, and such a event is traumatic and tragic for the individual, no matter where in the world it is, currently, all the females in a country is raped and raped again from the aggressors, its a old way to make sure they feel bad for a long time.

Now, the event did happen once, it might have been years, it wont matter for the individual they now have this events playing in their mind (mmemory), they recall it have flashes, they go back to the event, (context) And they get stress reactions from it, (behaviors forms) they evade people, they become shy, distrusting and so on.

So, you come in and use NLP to them, and what will happen as NLP wont work that well then.

First rule of ferengi, never go back to old stuff.

Our brain creates experience from a specific set of configurations, called context, and as long it is doing that, other contexts simply isn’t existing then.

I have taken bad issues, bad clients, and run them with everything they once had a problem with, and they have no responses at all to their so called problem with me.

Obviously, they don’t think much about it.

Its due, that their problem is real for them, for them they had it for years and years, it was bad, and as they had it so long we believe it is true for us, it actually exists and I go, its all a memory…it cant be real.

Unless you want to make the argument that our memory is real..as the actual event itself with its experience?

No?

Why not`?

If you feel bad, for any reason, its your memory that activates with your current context and you believe it real within a confined criteria of course.

Now, tragic events happen, shit happens, however how we choose and decide, how to move on and go from that, is all that actually matters.

I been ill for 10 years now, I cant work the capacity I want, no matter what I tried, it haven’t get me to the point where I want things to be. This doesn’t mean I give up, or stop trying.

One of the benefits with RBIm, is a small sideffect, you cant feel bad unless you want to.

As you learn about how your brain functions and how it does things, you stop the debate of NLP, what the definition is as you understand it doesn’t matter much, as your using a new one that works better and you don’t need to debate that as you got a life to live.

Do you want to feel happy every day?

Or be able to shift your experience from happy, to joyous, to sad, to excited or anything else on a whim?

That is what you learn here, looking into the future.

Some asked me, do I require visualization skills after I learn the RBIm drill to then access future experience and my answer is no. You can use pen and paper if you like to do it.

For me modeling emotions is a moot point, it can be done, not so useful though, as its more useful teaching people to feel emotions of happiness, joy, peace, perfection, harmony, in balance etc….

But to do so, we also need to understand, if evolution has brought us the ability to remember events as real years later as if they are happening now, instead of being a past memory, we could assume that one single approach would be possible and plausible if the brain is acting the same way for people doing just that….

For me I don’t work with guilt or fear as phobias anymore, its to easy.

The same approach can be used for phobia and guilt in spite of what the NLP trainer Steve Andreases tells you as I know and he don’t, obviously.

He believes he knows which if you ask me is a dangerous approach as he will tell you things as they are true, and seduce you into thinking it is true when it cant be. So, yes, the same approach can be used for broken legs, emotions and mental issues in spite of what Steve Andreases believes to be true.(he fails to consider category of functions in spite of writing a book about that subject heh)

Don’t take my word for it, use the RBIm process, its on video with explanations, its all there.

Doing the drill achieving Intention allows you to suddenly, experience something you moist likely never do.

Going all out.

Think about that, if you could go all out, feeling like happy the whole day, the week, the month of the year, how would that be for you?

Giddy?
To good to be true?

The response you just had to my questions shows the unconscious reservations you have and your defense screen most likely just pooped up. We cant have people going around like O´Leary with mushrooms and drop in and tune out all the time as a world with happy people just sucks to much.

It is possible, its doable, its here within your grasp.

I got the secrets, the answers and the mystical connections.

I am a hero.
Yours

/Robert Johansson
Making coffee at least I got skills for that.

We are a copy of people before us, the older generations dads, moms, grandparents and then even further past, we are them.

We are the expression of past ghosts, of past behavioral keys, as I grow up and done NLP and as I went on I notice all the people around me had the same behavior I had, I went, gee why is that?

So, I have those behaviors as we grow up we mimic people and then also pick up traits as we do, and as we later develop our own we still keep having our parents or such peoples, behaviors.

It isn’t a bad thing but it also means we are a copy of the copy down the line a Russian doll.

It’s almost as we are clones of people before us, but we also have our own destiny our own expressions but those are often in competition of those that we seldom pay attention off.

Behaviors we do, also become stale and old, which means the brain don’t pay attention to them they run them and turn them into the category of HABIT.

When a behavior become habit, we are often removed from the source, we get a second hand experience, we just do the behavior and many don’t know why they react as they do, in life we encounter people and suddenly we just respond and react and we don’t why we got a gut reaction or a fear response or feeling sorry or whatever we might encounter.

Its due that the brain encounter a context, and then get a signal, hey presto this context now means this response and we react to the moment and we might walk along a beach and feeling fine and then suddenly we cry out for no apparent reason due to us, have a ton of behavioral cues, and those are such Varity and we can become a victim of them.

I have this girl that wrote me letters, about her life that sucked, now she had a trauma once, and she then blended that with her life which obviously didn’t worked, so I told her to focus on what worked, which created obviously a response for her a bad one so she wrote me for years, about why I sucked, why she was angry at me and what else did go in her life, and I never answered those at all, as she could write me and not get a response, as this allowed her slowly to be, herself, free from the demons of past ghosts and dolls.

Our brain needs a reason to exist, which means, any reality that you have or behavior also needs a reason to exist, if it doesn’t get that reason or response behaviorally, it won’t work.

Now, I work at a level of understanding that I adventure into the last 15 years, and as I move on and go on and dig deeper into this, I understand more, and also less.

It’s not like I can have a debate or discussion with many about what I do as it just goes outside their current level of experience of life mostly.

Your behavior, either it be fear, sadness, guilt, or happiness or harmony is all the same, if we have them at a behavioral level only without intention, they can’t exist without the response from the outside world that confirms the legitimate use of them. I had clients that had the worst of life’s, and as I talked to them, they said, you know maybe my life wasn’t that bad after all and that after 30 years suddenly realizing hey my life wasn’t that bad so what changed?

Intention and their experience did.

If people live in the past, how can that be as it did happen once like 30 years ago, why would people dwell on that? Why would we be so living into the past, and stop the progress of life?

It’s our society as it is done, we don’t get any education of, hey this is how our brain does things, this is why we feel fear, why we feel outside, we feel alone we feel the need to control or the need of power.

We don’t get any education, of why we react and think they way we do in school, the things I thought about, why are people doing these things, and why am I doing this and reacting like this?

So, Became curious, and looked for answers, and as I asked around I found NLP and a way to analyze and work the inner workings of our brains and as I did I also found to many inconsistencies in NLP and as I did I started to question that the co-founders did which people around them refused to notice was going on and my brain went, are they all blind or just another cloned Russian doll?

I find the same in any field, we become so unquestionable, we just think people know the answer, and have the secret, or the mystical connection and there is a huge need to those,

I know the secret, the answers and have a mystical connection and it’s called RBIm but that isn’t the whole answer or secret, obviously.

But it is enough to show you that people can use it, get a level of experience of life that is highly different than they had before, and they write about it here, on this blog, on the forum, and if what I did offer was the same as NLP or 3D mind, or new code nlp, or meta-states wouldn’t you think they be saying that also if that was the case but I got people from NLP, from mythoself, from other methods that isn’t happy with those technologies…

In a funny way, I get people who are dissatisfied and people who are interested in new stuff.

Its due that those technologies didn’t gave them or in this case, you, what was desired and wanted.

That is the answer, we want, and needs can be different, and we have a choice to understand that what we need is different from what we want and works for us but mostly that isn’t taught in other systems, it’s a highly philosophical view.

In the movie, legion, an angel is coming down to earth, now it’s about needs and want there also.

It’s a lot about the way we just react and respond to life, and when we encounter something so, out of here, what do we do?

How do we respond?

As a Russian doll or as a member of the human society of choice hey I choose my responses and we seldom do, so trapped we are in the webs of echo’s of ghosts.

I have to do some things these days, 3 days a week, a few hours, so I can do what I am told or I can choose to do what I want to do, and as I do that all things got consequences and if you can live with them I guess, life is a much more, spicy place.

So, I write some blogs, hopefully short, and informative after all I got the answers to the secrets with the connections.

/Robert Johansson
another Cloned russian doll.

I had this idea of writing about what a model is and does, as NLP don’t explain that well at all just read the NLP volume one, and read the first chapter its Bandler explaining a model, woohoo how it suck ass.

If you played video games, you interact with a screen and things on it, and all we interact with is made up from 1 and zero.

A computer process 1 and zero, and some people write code in machine code which is the closet we can get except we write 1 and zeros but if we did that writing a program to be useful will take years even decades today.

So, people developed a way to write code more efficient and created a layer where the computer programmer could learn a language of object oriented code c++ what this means is that if we take a house, we can either interact with the ground living on the ground directly, it be messy, and so many built a floor a layer to the ground and later we build even more layers above that first floor.

Each floor interacts with each other, and that is how the computer programs are made, its layering of object oriented code that instructs the computer what we want it to do BUT since the code isn’t machine code, we must optimize it and d-code for the computer as well we can.

The computer always reads 1 and zero.101010101010 like that.

If we want the computer to do things where we can build interacting software we use a guiding set of instructions called coding language that is object oriented.

So, the programmer write code based upon a set principle. He knows what the code will do so he can write not 101010 but he can write a single set instruction that the computer understands so it can do it.

Now, computer programming is a lot about understanding how the specific language interact and builds objects for the computer.

Back in 1997 or so I built a web page using HTML code, today I don’t need that I use a visual interface, which allows me to shape the website and webpage without any knowledge about html code. So, the interface has now become more object oriented more paper and cut it and shape it as I go along.

A model does that, it moves us into object oriented approaches, which means we get a bigger chunk to work with, instead of every nitty detail we go into a little bigger bits. A model allows you to interact with more efficiency as you understand the working principle that the model describes for us.

Now, NLP is a technology built upon models which allows you to map the mental world someone is having within their so called subjective reality. Now, NLP is made like that as the people creating NLP believed they had to do it like that and then later on they tried to move on to other things but those again built upon the same conceptual idea and models they already worked with.

Bandler loves hypnosis and language patterns and to control people so he does hypnosis, deep hypnosis and use covert language to do hypnosis. Grinder loves language, and is lazy so he use simplicity in his approach, so what he try to do is to streamline everything into the most essential bit.

Bandler and Grinder together could do great things, alone not so much.

A model is true as it describe the working condition or the layer to interact with the things we do.
Now, if I come along and use another model the NLP practitioner cant understand what I do, as it uses a different model a different object oriented language based upon a different principle.

Our brain is based upon survival which means adaption.

Your brain can from one moment to the next, delete a whole experience, the memory that it just did happen.

This also serve us for creativity, the social ability to interact with people all over the world, but it also limit us as we become victims of our response reaction patterns.

About energy, people have 100% energy, as I wake up, and start doing things my energy also starts to go away, and I need to rest, eat and do all those things to restore energy as I go along. If you work and are more tired when you go home, you have the wrong job. If the things you do, cost energy, its a sign of things like stress as many are stressed out daily, for many things like if the kids are safe, if the house is still there, if the food is there and so on.

Getting energized is a lot about understanding how our energy is affected by our food, if you eat a lot of carbos you drain energy as the body has to compensate for this, if you eat more fat and protein and less so than your friends, you loose weight and gain muscles and become healthier and gain more energy.

Carbos create a inflammatory response in the body, which means the immune system is activated as it believes the body is under attack. The body react as an allergy to food without any allergy symptoms but its there, its the reddish color people have in their faces, the ache in their joints, and the sluggish energy loss.

So food alone can cut down your energy and create a loop of bad energy loss.
Then we can talk about emotional state as this also drains energy, same goes for the mental state if you worry a lot then hey presto.

Tony Robbins states that motion creates emotion, NOT TRUE another lie he sells people.

RBIm the Blueprint drill shown on another blog post is about teaching you Intention.

It isn’t the experience alone its the Intention that is important, as that skill is crucial and many of my students have a hard time with that concept.

Swedes are basically slaves, its a down behaviorally inherit from the days of priests, and such to obey the authority. Intention is for them a foreign concept.

The brain works by organizing around contexts, which many believe is on the outside, around us.

However, as soon we are able to form representations we build a reference to the outside within us, this reference later on can be static and be locked in for some for decades. Its a evolution at work, our brain had to keep information for years if there was danger around we had to warn others, its a simple system but highly effective. In our modern world it can be highly frustrating as people develop all kinds of disorders with that system and some even believe what they remember is real.

I got memories I knew I did dream about.
I was like, why would the brain mix them, and then later one I would believe them to be things I actually was present and experienced?

Oh another survival thing, its due to evolution had to make us able to adapt so it mixes what we experience and what we expose us for and then create diversity so we can adapt easier the next time even to situations we haven’t encounter yet but we can remember them.

Its like a client, well I have this problem and I go, NO its not a problem. Now they argue with me how it is one and how real it is and I can prove to them and every student I had that problems do not exist.

Now, the same fucking student comes to me about a fucking problem they still have and my brain goes, what the fuck are you not doing what you been taught?????
They expect me to fix it, oh lol.

I got students who want me to work with them, as I got special powers they say, and my brain goes, oh fuck head. So I run the workshop as I did that I worked with everyone there according to how their system are set up, naturally they don’t understand that as the brain also delete that and deny it, and many laugh about the others and I go why don’t you laugh at your own system then? Its as screwed up as theirs. But that isn’t how we think about our own system as it is natural and normal for us.

So I can prove, problems don’t exist, in every case they go after a while hum, the problem isn’t there anymore and I go anyone else that got a serious one?

How about a trauma?
That isn’t a problem btw, many believe it is but structurally it isn’t. A problem is often something people worry about, have some anxiety about. Its a second order of a problem.

A trauma however isn’t a problem as people having the trauma believe their reality is like this, and some get this confused so they believe people always thinks about them as they once experienced, which means any intervention will reinforce this trauma is real.

They are classic nut-heads, they can have the problem as the trauma is real, then any intervention will just reinforce that, unless we make them move into a context where this isn’t true for them.

But since their criteria of a context is internally generated towards the outside, based upon a trauma, we can assume even when we change the external context, it wont work for them.

Its a lifestyle for them, its fully internally generated, which means that NLP trained people cant help them, I had NLP practitioners trying that with clients from other NLP trainers and they all failed.

If the client has a internally generated subjective reality fully generated without any external reference doesn’t change that at all we got a serious problem, they don’t, we got it.

People like that can work as they work they repeat the same things over and over again and the staff will go nuts about them why do she ask for directions again after a YEAR TO THE SAME PLaCE SHE BEEN FOR A WHOLE FUCKIN YEAR????

One client I had told me that, she lost directions, and as she worked a place she always had to ask someone for directions every day for years. So the staff thought she was nuts.

No one ask for directions after a week or 2, she did. Now, the staff become annoyed, irritated, angry even she became the target of all jokes, she became a outcast and laughed at behind her back, and she didn’t know.

The staff didn’t help her overcome this as they couldn’t.

So, food, stress and such affect our energy and if we are able to shift contexts, we can restore a lot of energy as we lift the weight of the hormone system that produces the stress hormones.

I can be dead tried, and dead beat, and moments later I am vital and full of energy.

Any state your in and if you stay within that a longer time will start to habituate and that I must take into consideration when I do a workshop, I cant sometimes teach people things unless they done other things first as the shift is to much for them to handle. Reality is fragile, some believe it is stable and I go, not so much.

I don’t want to send people home after a workshop where they be in jeopardy of their marriage, due to the trainer thinks its good for them to run the things they do, as I had to fix what the trainer did in denmark or else they had a divorce. I seen people break down after bandlers trainings and under them as the hypnosis makes people go nuts.

When I work with people I have to take into account everything, reality, the responses they live their life and reactions they have as I do the workshop if I do to much, people go nuts and that I wont have. Its a thin line and things I do I don’t teach to people nor my students.

For some I become a guru, and I am not a big thing in that regard even though I appreciate the worship it also creates a responsibility for me to attend to that I also must take into consideration.

I understand the need for worship, as it is a legitimize way to have some mystery in life and also build ones faith around and many have had that trough human history and most have degraded and took advantage of that into building cults and had sex with minors.

I guess some now go, oh that I would like and I would go, your sick motherfucker.

Motherfucker as a word and concept btw comes from Freud, he one day woke up and wanted to have sex with his mother and said, oh fuck. Its no wonder he became analyzer of dreams then. I guess if they got boobs, and a pussy they are all the same.

Anyway I got sidetracked, a model is our way to go layering into communicating with bigger objects we can shuffle around and they provide for us a navigating tool.

In the NLP meta-model we use questions to uncover how someone has built a particular reality and their layers of interaction as if you use the meta-model properly, you find each questions digs trough layers of abstractions (not so much for the client) and each layer brings new answers and revelations.

Now, I go, we don’t need to do that, we can directly move into a new future context and experience.
Instead of eliciting the present state, and reasons how they process this the NLP way, we instead build a new reality for them.

Let say you feel tried, now we can ask questions to elicit the reasons why your tired, how come you ended up tired, or we can ask questions how it would be like to feel fine, energized and vital instead.

It might not be easy to get there at first as we are used to the unconscious mind controlling our brain we are slaves under our own mind, we cant do anything at all as it isn’t us doing it its our unconscious mind.

Or we can learn to create intention, start to generate your own experience the RBIm way. Its a different model, that is built upon the idea that reality is generated by Intention and that the brain organize around contexts…

/Robert Johansson
Once a slave, once a digger, once the best NLP dude around, and now the coolest guru around with tools of love, passion and curiosity and no its not a tune in tune out O´Leary message as he sucked a lot of drugs. It could be but ain’t. What is it then? And the brain never left orbit.